Finally, if she doesn’t stop after you tell her that she hurts you, Flamingo I don’t need a man I need wine and a tan shirt isn’t a friend. She may have problems, but you don’t deserve to be bullied. Why do you feel like you have to “take it” from her, when it hurts? If she keeps it up, just explain: You don’t like being taken advantage of, you told her that, and she still walks all over you. So she isn’t a friend, and you’re not going to hang around with someone who is mean. She needs to learn behavior has consequences: you are letting her get away with being obnoxious, with no negative feedback. Tell Her.