Oh, he thinks taking care of the home and children is I’m wih stupid shirt does he? Well, have him take a week of vacation from work and make him take care of the kids while you and your friends hop off on a nice lady’s vacation or something. Just so he can personally experience “just how easy” it is to raise two small kids. The coffee is the hook, its the other stuff you get there that makes money. Both are equal in value to attract customers but the food is the money maker or the drinks with the coffee. All must be good to make it work. And do not put little flowers on tables or sugar salt and pepper shakers or bottles of condiments. If the customer asks for it take it to them or as some places just have a tray of them for customers to take to their table if they need it. Everything already on the table is so 70 years ago.